If you are curious about why so much is bad/broken in North American Cities, NOT JUST BIKES will…

rotspeaker:

I have to like. titrate how often I watch NJB videos bc the stuff he talks about makes me SO ANGY and then I have to go outside and DEAL with the stuff he’s talkin about on a regular basis and I just combust into a ball of rage. but one thing that is comforting is that he seems to be just as furious especially since he also has to deal with asshats in his comments who have no listening comprehension or ability to think outside their own consumerism-addled brains

anyway fuck these stupid ass fucking trucks ✌🏿

If you are curious about why so much is bad/broken in North American Cities, NOT JUST BIKES will open your eyes.

We have been so indoctrinated by more than a century of car culture, it never occurs to most of us that there is anything wrong with designing the places we live to accommodate vehicles rather than people.

And considering that many of the government policies that contribute to these NA urban problems were due to deliberate policy? I mean who would deliberately set out to make our world worse just to make money? As it turns out: an awful lot of people.

The very idea that vehicle manufacturers would build these stupid trucks that are not just more dangerous for the people outside them (as the thumbnail image demonstrates drivers literally can’t see children, animals, people in wheelchairs right in front of them) but more dangerous to the people inside them ON PURPOSE is mind boggling. But they do because they can make more money and avoid regulations.

Please watch the video; this is something everyone needs to see.

Re: Mary Poppins

neil-gaiman:

I wrote this as an introduction to a book, by Giorgia Grilli, about Mary Poppins. Currently I have a small son who is determined to go up the chimney, like Bert, and is determinedly trying to get into every fireplace and up every chimney he passes. It seemed like a good time to put this piece of writing back out into the world.

I encountered Mary Poppins, as so many of my generation, and those that followed it did, through the film; but I saw the film as a very small boy, and it stayed in my head as a jumble of scenes, leaving behind mostly a few songs and a vague memory of Mr Banks as a figure of terror. I knew I had enjoyed it, but the details were lost to me. Thus I was delighted to find, as a five or six year old, a Puffin paperback edition of Mary Poppins by P.L. Travers, with a picture of pretty Julie Andrews flying her umbrella on the cover. The book I read was utterly wrong – this was not the Mary Poppins I remembered – and utterly, entirely right.

Not until I read Giorgia Grilli’s book on Mary Poppins did I understand why this was. I am not sure that I had given it any thought previously – Travers’ Mary Poppins was a natural phenomenon, ancient as mountain ranges, on first-name terms with the primal powers of the universe, adored and respected by everything that saw the world as it was. And she was a mystery. Mary Poppins defies explanation, and so it is to Professor Grilli’s credit that her explanation of and insight into the Banks family’s nanny does nothing to diminish the mystery, or to lessen Mary Poppins’ appeal.

The patterns of the first three Mary Poppins books are as inflexible as those of a Noh play: she arrives, brings order to chaos, sets the world to rights, takes the Banks children places, tells them a story, rescues them from themselves, brings magic to Cherry Tree Lane, and then, when the time is right, she leaves.

I do not ever remember wishing that Mary Poppins was my nanny. She would have had no patience with a dreamy child who only wanted to be left alone to read. I did not even wish that I was one of the Banks children, at the Circus of the Sun or having tea on the ceiling, and perhaps that was because, unlike many other children in literature, they did not feel permanent. They would grow, Jane and Michael, and soon they would no longer need a nanny, and soon after that they would have children of their own.

No, I did not want her for my nanny and I was glad the Banks family, not mine, had to cope with her, but still, I inhaled the lessons of Mary Poppins with the air of my childhood. I was certain that, on some fundamental level, they were true, beneath truth. When my youngest daughter was born I took the older two aside and read them the story of the arrival of the New One. Philosophically, I suspect now, the universe of Mary Poppins underpins all my writing – but this I did not know before I read Professor Grilli’s work.

It would not be overstating the case to suggest that Professor Grilli is the most perceptive academic I have so far encountered in the field of children’s literature, and I have encountered many of the breed. She understands its magic and she is capable of examining and describing it without killing it in the process. Too many critics of children’s literature can only explain it as a dead thing in a jar. Professor Grilli is a naturalist, and a remarkable one, an observer who understands what she observes. We are fortunate to have her, and we should appreciate her while she is here, before she too walks through a door that is not there, or before the wind blows her away.

Neil Gaiman

plain-flavoured-english:As I get older I’m starting to let go of the guilty urge to build permanent…

plain-flavoured-english:

As I get older I’m starting to let go of the guilty urge to build permanent habits. Like, a while ago I decided I would start jumping rope every day. I did it for like three weeks and felt good about it. Then I got bored, because of course I did, because I’m a human person. So now I do a bit of kickboxing because that’s what I like now. The other week I cut all sugar from my diet, just for a week, to challenge myself. Now I’m back to eating sweets but I don’t crave them as much.

Growth is about stretching, trying new things, and setting small, realistic goals for yourself, not picking a “good habit” you’ve decided you will be doing always and forever from now on. That’s not discipline. That’s pointless self-torture and unhealthy resistance to change.

What’s good for you today will not necessarily be what’s good for you tomorrow.

“Children can have a cruel, absolute sense of justice. Children can kill monsters and feel quite…”

“Children can have a cruel, absolute sense of justice. Children can kill monsters and feel quite proud of themselves. Even a girl who carries spiders outside instead of stepping on them, a girl who once fed a tiny fox kit with an eyedropper every two hours until wildlife rescue could come and pick it up–that same girl can kill and be ready to do it again. … She can look at her brother and believe that together they’re a knight and a bard who battle evil, who might someday find and fight even the monster at the heart of the forest. A little girl can find a dead boy and lose her dog and believe that she could make sure no one else was lost.”

- Holly Black, The Darkest Part of the Forest.

The author of the Charlemagne book I’m listening to puts a lot of emphasis on the difference between…

elucubrare:

The author of the Charlemagne book I’m listening to puts a lot of emphasis on the difference between modern people and medieval people, and how we can never really enter into a medieval mindset. and to a large extent, I think he’s right.

I mean, I think there are at least two levels:

First, there’s “people have always been people”: people have always had petty complaints about shopkeepers, and loved children and siblings, and made toys and left graffiti. Modern apartment-dwellers can understand many things about Romans living in insulae - annoying neighbors, fourth-floor walkups, absentee landlords.

But second, there’s a larger mindset that we can try to understand but never share: medieval people lived in a world that was much less certain than ours, in many ways. Not only practically uncertain - you don’t know if the harvest will fail, so you don’t know if you’ll have enough to eat that winter - but uncertain in that there are so many more unknowns about the world - if the harvest fails, you don’t know why. You can’t predict the weather; you don’t know what causes the weather. That has to affect your decision-making, and the way you live your life, in so many ways I can’t even begin to speculate on.

In the end, I think it’s important to remember both - these are people, with people’s quirks and faults and desires, both large and small – but they’re people in a context, with points of view, and in circumstances that are completely different from ours.

Autumn makes me want to live in a small town with tons of history and character. Leaf-strewn…

alatteofautumn:

Autumn makes me want to live in a small town with tons of history and character. Leaf-strewn cobblestone streets. Old buildings and homes that range from small cottages to large estates. Maple, oak, and pine trees line the streets and cluster in yards, and when they all turn orange and gold in the fall it’s the most beautiful sight. Small local businesses thrive. It’s walking distance to your favorite coffee shop or diner. There’s an ancient library on the edge of town with the greatest selection of books, comfy armchairs, tables, and big windows to read by. Time moves slower there. Everything is safe.

You know what we don’t talk about enough in the aromantic community? That moment after you accept…

herbirdglitter:

You know what we don’t talk about enough in the aromantic community? That moment after you accept yourself as aromantic whre you suddenly realize that you have no goals.

Like sure maybe professional goals and stuff, but personal goals? It feels like everyone else has a plan. Like they’re all going to get married by 25 and have kids by 30 etc. and you don’t have any. You’re future is suddenly feeling very empty, because even though you didn’t necessarily want that future, at least it was a plan.

A plan that revolved around having someone who loved you unconditionally and promised never to leave you.

And now that you’ve realized that that promise comes with stuff you might not want, and the whole idea is scrapped, well your future suddenly starts to look very, very lonely.